So my friend, who I love and value his opinion, brought to my attention something rather interesting that majority of black men are doing, have done, or thought about doing. No, it's not sleeping with a white girl, and it's not cheating on their spouse/girlfriend....it's something else.....it is dating a hoodrat chick.
Now, let me break down MY version of a hood rat, because you know there are skewed perceptions out there about what is a hood rat, but first let me also point out a chicken head.
Chicken heads just don't know any better. These are the chicks that are pressed for a dude and will do anything for him. A chicken head is loud, obnoxious, flamboyant, is more than always on the scene, she is every damn where and has a perception that she is all that, when really she is just, well, a chicken head.
Now a hood rat walks the fine line at times of being a chicken head, but there are distinct differences. A hood rat is KNOWN throughout her hood as being the "easy" chick that the neighborhood boys have ALL had some form of sexual interaction with. No need to decipher the types of sexual interactions, we're all adults, we can use our imaginations. Moving on, the hood rat chick is the best dressed, has the best body, cool personality, has a street mentality, always on the scene at the hot parties, and the men WANT HER! She is not pressed like the chicken head. The hood rat doesn't have many friends, just a few close homegirls, and a couple of Chicken Head chicks who are pressed to be the hood rat's friend because they want to be cool by association. Chicken head chicks will jock a man....a hood rat chick doesn't have to jock, because she already has the body, the demeanor and unfortunately the reputation. With that all being said, at one point a black man has either strictly dated hood rats, have dated a few hood rats, or is really wanting to try out the hood rat thing just for sex purposes.
Now, on the other hand, the good girl is the girl who didn't get into too much trouble at school, made good grades, went to church, respected her parents, was involved in extracurricular actives such as sports, cheer leading, dance, band, etc. She is known in any crowd for being nice, sensible and doesn't come with a lot of drama. She is the girl that the boys like, they respect her, but hold her to another regard because lets face it....they're thinking about how they're going to get that hood rat. In short, she is the girl Bobby Brown was singing about in "Tender Roni"
The hood rat, chicken heads and good girls grow up to become women. The Chicken heads are typically pregnant by a man that is a dead beat and she is taking care of him. A hood rat may of had a few babies, but certainly wasn't pressed to keep a low life dude around when she knows her worth and knows that there are more fish in the sea. The good girl, may have gotten married lives in a house with a white picket fence.....but the MAJORITY of good girls end up single because the men think they're "too good" or "unapproachable". Why, because the good girl has it all, the looks, smarts, education, independence, the money and is doing great by herself, therefore most men feel "what can I do for her?" She is serious, she wants a serious relationship and most men just wanna have fun and have sex....save that corny "relationship" crap for the birds.
Case in point, exhibit A: Amber Rose the Queen Hood Rat Chick!
Amber Rose is notorious for being Kanye West's girlfriend. A certified Hood Rat who came out of the streets of Philly. Banging body, nice face, but is hood. She doesn't have to press or chase men, because they come to her, and she'll never have to worry about being single. She isn't the type that is looking to be held down. She likes to have fun, be on the scene, is fashionable and will not hold whatever dude she is with accountable for his actions, why, because she doesn't hold herself accountable for her own actions.
Exhibit B: Brandy the Queen of Good Girls!
Brandy is notoriously the black "Girl Next Door" American Apple Pie sweetheart. From her first Album rocking the braids, to playing the first black Cinderella, Dancing with the Stars, and all around good girl. She has a career, can sing, independent, educated, very nice...almost too nice. AND SINGLE!
Men don't want Brandy, they want Amber Rose! Men can exploit Amber Rose and tell his boys about all the sexual exploits he was involved with while with Amber Rose. Where as, Brandy is wifey material, a man would not feel comfortable dishing dirt on a girl he looks at as being virtuous, noble, respectable and pure.
Not to say Brandy is the epitome of perfection, but if we look at the two, we can see a clear cut difference of the Good Girl Vs. Bad Girl.
This was a subject manner in a conversation that made me go, hmmmm. I certainly know that I could be considered in the "good girl" category. Do I know a few Chicken Heads, and Hood Rats, sure. Are they cool people, absolutely!
The fact of the matter is that men like to say that women like bad boys and never go after the "good guys", well the same is true for men. They want a woman that has some edge to her, has some sort of bad girl appeal to her. Look at all the women that are "good girls" that are single compared to the "bad girls" who have men.
Take a look and think about it.....
had to throw a sample of Amber Rose with ChickenHeads
But all in all, with out saying who is the good girl, who is the bad girl....you catch my drift?
Coming live and direct from the Temple of Malisea Q. Gardner where her inner hood rat is beefing with her inner good girl and the Chicken Head is the mediator!
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